Care For Elderly Parents - 3 Preliminary Preparations to Make Before They Move In
To take care of elderly parents is something that most people view as admirable and proper. After all your parents stood by you and held your hand when you had mumps, measles and chicken pox. They also helped you through grammer school, junior high, and high school . It is not less than common courtesy to give back and to take care of elderly parents for all that they have done for you.
However, the practically side of taking care of elderly parents isn’t so easy. In today’s complex life style to bring one or two old people, no matter if they are your parents or strangers, isn’t so simple. In this article I want to present a few steps that you should take before they move in to ease the difficulty.
Firstly, do research on the illness or illnesses that they are experiencing so you will understand some of their seemingly bazaar behavior and also to know what special measures need to be taken.
Every illness that affects seniors requires you to take special precautions. For instance, if they are only slight vision impairment then you will need to get special lighting at least in their room and probably also in the kitchen or dining room. If they are suffering from some form of dementia read about how you should relate to such a person.
Secondly, don’t forget to get legal forms in order. This seems pretty mundane but this is something that must be done to properly take care of elderly parents.
For instance, if they don’t give you power of attorney, when they are still legally able, then you might not able to draw money or go into their safe deposit box, EVEN FOR THEM!
Also, make sure that they give you medical power of attorney then you will be at the mercy of the state and they will do what THEY think is best for the patient (or for re-election) and not what you and your elderly parents want.
Thirdly, but VERY IMPORTANT!, Before they move in, make sure to schedule time for you (yes you are also a person) to get away. As much as we want to help and to take care of elderly parents it can be very stressful and trying. If you don’t build into your schedule a time to “recharge” it is very likely that you will burn out.
Do this as close to the time that they move in as possible. Don’t wait! The reason for this is that in the beginning other siblings and friends are eager to pitch in and help. After your parents are with you and into a schedule then they will leave it at the status quo.
Therefore make sure that the “status quo” is that you don’t do all of the work and that you have time for yourself.
To care for elderly parents is certainly proper and admirable but at the same time difficult. Follow the steps above to make their stay as pleasant and easy as possible.
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